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Step 28: The pause in the middle.
In my current messy moment, I ask God for these two things: Grace. And peace. Outward kindness. And the inward settling of my spirit.
Kathy Gallagher
Mar 212 min read
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Step 27: Cross some thresholds.
Two weeks ago Jim crossed a threshold. This time I mean an honest-to-goodness, physical, front-door threshold. It's kind of a big deal.
Kathy Gallagher
Jan 238 min read
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Step 25 & 26
Yesterday’s pain has built today’s muscle. We’re getting our groove back.
Kathy Gallagher
Dec 2, 20246 min read
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Step 24: Fill your deer tag.
I occasionally whisper prayers that God will grant my mobility-challenged, excellent marksman husband the chance to shoot a buck.
Kathy Gallagher
Nov 4, 20247 min read
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Step 22 & 23: Bust some new moves.
If your name happens to be John, you really should take up fishing.
Kathy Gallagher
Oct 28, 20244 min read
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Steps 13-21: Micro-changes.
God is merciful and gracious. He hears every prayer, even the grumpy ones.
Kathy Gallagher
Oct 5, 20249 min read
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Step 12: List your house!
There is beauty in the muddle of the middle, not just in crossing the finish line.
Kathy Gallagher
Sep 11, 20245 min read
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Step 11: Make room for grace.
Day after day the breakers of God’s relentless grace wash in, out, and over us, slowly changing the shape of our lives in the process.
Kathy Gallagher
Aug 25, 20248 min read
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Step Ten: Choose the lemonade.
You can focus on the mosquitoes, or you can sip that lemonaid and listen to the birds.
Kathy Gallagher
Aug 7, 20244 min read
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Step Nine: Reinvent us.
Tears--happy and sad and frustrated and grateful and fearful and repentant tears--flow regularly these days.
Kathy Gallagher
Aug 3, 20247 min read
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Step Eight: Prepare for home.
It’s a new life for us both. A treasure. And also an obstacle course with no guide book.
Kathy Gallagher
Jul 21, 20246 min read
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Step Seven: Pretend you're normal.
Touches of “normal” in an extremely abnormal life are both welcome and weird.
Kathy Gallagher
Jul 10, 20243 min read
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Step Six: Face your giants.
Life—even life that flirts with scary stuff—is sweet and good when you have support around you.
Kathy Gallagher
Jul 7, 20245 min read
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Step Five: Add some wheels.
It’s an honored, front-row seat, but a powerless one. I drive nothing, react to everything.
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 27, 20244 min read
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Step Four: Hard and holy work.
God defines what is true and good and beautiful. We acknowledge our helpless state. And then we hand him the scalpel.
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 20, 20245 min read
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Step Three: Endure.
On May 23, 2024, my husband, Jim Gallagher, entered the E.R. he worked in for 15 years, this time as a patient. Within days he was...
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 16, 20244 min read
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Step Two: Have a birthday.
On May 23, 2024, my husband, Jim Gallagher, entered the E.R. he worked in for 15 years, this time as a patient. Within days he was...
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 12, 20242 min read
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One step at a time.
On May 23, 2024, my husband, Jim Gallagher, entered the E.R. he worked in for 15 years, this time as a patient. Within days he was...
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 9, 20243 min read
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If you don't come home (or even if you do)...
You stopped my heart the other day. We listened to one doctor and then a second one talk about your body, your labs, and what numbers...
Kathy Gallagher
Jun 1, 20248 min read
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